To Reveal, or not to Reveal

The decision about whether to confide in someone requires courage. But if you choose to open up to a trusted friend, it can deepen your connection, and lead to increased intimacy.

The Struggle to Forgive

The decision to offer someone forgiveness is often a difficult one. Understanding some of the factors involved may lead to greater compassion, and eventually to the possibility of reconciliation.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiMay 27, 2020forgiveness, healing, tension, relationships, reconciliation, intention, self-image, apology, parenting, conditioning, shame, defenses, frustration, mercy, resentments, strugglesComment

Where can you do Less?

Doing less for others when it’s appropriate means more time for you. It’s a gift you can give yourself that says, “I am important, too.”

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiDecember 18, 2019self-care, boundaries, conditioning, overload, overwhelm, resistance Comments

There's Room for our Quirks

Simply learning to be ourselves and allowing others to be themselves—that’s what leads to healthy, mature, and satisfying relationships and careers that we can be proud of. There are two things that get in the way, though. Read on to find out what they are.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiNovember 27, 2019positive psychology, authenticity, personality differences, conditioning, fear Comments

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