How to Be a Finisher

Often we give up on projects when we get stuck and can’t figure out what the next step is. Setting aside our embarrassment and asking for help is the surest way to bring a project to completion.

Caring for the Sandwich Generation

Caregivers in the “sandwich generation” can easily become overwhelmed with their responsibilities. Many are unaware of the numerous sources of help and support available. It’s important for caregivers to take care of themselves, too.

A Different Kind of Resolution

If you’re struggling to keep your New Year’s resolutions, consider asking for help. Sometimes all we need is a little support and encouragement.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiJanuary 5, 2022New Year, resolution, help, assistance, 2022, weight, finances, writing, goals, change, emotional growth, values, habits, support, encouragement, independence, Claudia Luiz, coping mechanisms, traumaComment

How to Offer Genuine Help

All of us are subject to helping too much at times, or offering the wrong kind of help. There are steps we can take to ensure we are acting in the best interest of others.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiJuly 21, 2021help, motivation, journey, conflicting feelings, social awareness, social cues, unwarranted kindness, self-serving help, heavy-handed help, narcissist, ulterior motive, listening, motives, open-ended questions, control, outcomesComment

Why it's Good to Accept Help

Reciprocity in relationships gives each person a turn to be the giver and a turn to be the receiver. If we exclusively give, we rob others of the opportunity to feel the joy inherent in helping others.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiMarch 24, 2021help, giving, taking, assistance, sensitivity, childhood, shame, embarrassment, shadow self, negative emotions, compassion, inner child, reciprocity, relationships Comments

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